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Spoil-You-Rotten Big Spoon
In love, you slip straight into "Okay, I've got this" mode.
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You're not trying to be the grown-up. It's just that when something happens, your body moves before your brain does. They're still panicking; you're already on step two. Give it time and even if they're actually older than you, somehow you end up being the big-sibling one.
You in a relationship
- Catches feelings first (theirs)
- Remembers every detail
- Makes problems disappear
- Rarely lets them worry
Your strengths
- You're the anchor that makes people feel safe
- When they lose it, you don't lose it with them
- You remember more details about them than they do
Watch out for
- You rarely let anyone see that you get tired too
- After enough caretaking it starts to feel like a given, and you won't say a word
Everyone's version of love
In love, you slip straight into "Okay, I've got this" mode.