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Secretly Clingy Big Spoon
Around everyone else you're the reliable one. Only the person you like knows how clingy you get.
#ReliableOnTheOutside#ClingyBehindClosedDoors#OnlyYouGetToSeeIt
To most people you're steady, dependable, maybe even a little hard to approach. But with someone you like, you suddenly want reassurance, want replies, want five more minutes. You're not a different person. You're just handing over the half you usually keep tucked away.
You in a relationship
- Steady in public
- Clingy in private
- Checks where things stand
- Notices every text
Your strengths
- Your closeness is selective. Whoever you cling to knows they're special
- You make people feel safe and wanted at the same time
- You don't do the silent treatment
Watch out for
- When they're slow on the uptake, you've already rehearsed the worst-case version in your head
- You're not great at saying "I need you", so you hint at it with what you do
Everyone's version of love
Around everyone else you're the reliable one. Only the person you like knows how clingy you get.