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Got-Your-Back Teammate
Your dynamic goes like this: whoever's tired, the other one steps in.
#TakeTurnsBeingTheAdult#WhoeversTiredGetsSpoiled#NoPretending
You don't need a fixed role as the caretaker or the cared-for. If you're doing better today, you take the wheel; tomorrow it's their turn. That kind of trading off is rare, because it takes two people who are both willing to be vulnerable and both willing to step up.
You in a relationship
- Take turns being the grown-up
- Handle it together
- Whoever's tired gets spoiled
- No pretending
Your strengths
- Nobody's quietly stockpiling resentment
- Your care runs both ways, so nobody gets drained
- You can go the distance, steadily
Watch out for
- When you're both super considerate, you can get a little too polite with each other
- Sometimes you miss out on that spoiled-rotten kind of romance
Everyone's version of love
Your dynamic goes like this: whoever's tired, the other one steps in.